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BDSM Kink List

When I first came onto the scene, I did not have much of any guidance. Most Doms that claims to be Doms were more focus in getting into play and into contracts without taking time to work things out through the dynamics. I did not understand my limits, my rights and the importance of negotiation.

Through this experience, I learn to take things slow.
Through this, I learn to explore and not commit exclusively.
Through this, I learn to observe others. 
Through this, I am more careful with the people I mix with.
For my well-being is more important than satisfying my desire & lust; what more of another.

I came across a BDSM Kink List not long ago with the introduction of a friend. I spoke to one of my Daddies (non-exclusive) and asked questions about some of the activities. I then realized there are missing parts I hope to have in there - and others I believe would support a discussion. Hence, I re-do the list with the help of my Daddies and friend.

A BDSM Kink List works 3 ways for me...

  1. To have a better idea of the different kink activities available (helps to do research - especially on its safety!)
  2. To open a conversation with your Sub/Dom about your limits
  3. To discuss any health matters - It's important to be honest for your partner to know how to work with you personally

Do feel free to download and use it / change it as you feel the need to. It's designed to fit more of my needs and thoughts. 




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